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Effects of Cyberbullying: Mental Health Impacts on Children & Teens (2026)

The effects of cyberbullying on children and adolescents extend far beyond online interactions, with research showing a significant psychological impact on mental health, emotional development, and academic functioning. This in-depth guide examines the impact of cyberbullying on anxiety, depression, self-esteem, social withdrawal, and suicidal ideation, while exploring how cyberbullying affects mental health differently than traditional bullying. Written for behavioral health clinicians, school professionals, and caregivers, the article outlines common warning signs, explains the cyberbullying effects on mental health across developmental stages, and presents evidence-based strategies to support recovery, resilience, and prevention.

Sara Blevins, MA, LPC, ATR

Last Updated: January 20, 2026

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What You'll Learn

  • How the effects of cyberbullying impact mental health across emotional, behavioral, physical, academic, and developmental domains

  • The psychological impact of cyberbullying, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma symptoms, and increased risk for substance use and suicidal ideation

  • Why cyberbullying is often more harmful than traditional bullying, including the roles of permanence, anonymity, unlimited audience, and 24/7 access

  • Common behavioral, emotional, physical, and academic warning signs that may indicate a child is experiencing cyberbullying — whether they are a victim, bystander, or both

  • How cyberbullying can contribute to vicious cycles involving emotional distress, maladaptive coping (including substance use), worsening functioning, and continued victimization

  • Evidence-based therapeutic strategies clinicians use to address cyberbullying, including CBT, trauma-informed care, emotional regulation skills, family involvement, school collaboration, and digital safety planning

  • Practical guidance on how parents, educators, and clinicians can work together to prevent cyberbullying, intervene early, and support recovery and resilience

According to a Stanford study, children typically receive their first cell phones between 10.7 and 12.5 years of age. Many of these phones allow children to access Wi-Fi or the internet, which means they can be exposed to social media, inappropriate online content, or cyberbullying.

The statistics are alarming and growing worse. According to the latest data from the Cyberbullying Research Center, lifetime victimization has surged from 33.6% in 2016 to 58.2% in 2025 — meaning more than half of all teens have experienced online harassment at some point. Even more concerning, 30-day victimization rates have doubled from 16.5% to 32.7% in the same period, while perpetration has jumped dramatically to 16.1% in 2025.

Cyberbullying refers to individuals who send any type of threatening or humiliating message using an electronic device. Whether it's through social media posts, text messaging, online gaming platforms, or direct messages, it all counts as cyberbullying. Today, cyberbullying remains an increasing concern for parents and a prominent risk for youth. In fact, research shows that parental concern about cyberbullying has surpassed that of teen drug use, alcohol use, and pregnancy.

As a behavioral health clinician, you can help parents and educators protect kids by raising awareness and sharing cyberbullying interventions for youth. This comprehensive guide explores the effects of cyberbullying, warning signs, and evidence-based therapeutic strategies.

What is Cyberbullying?

Cyberbullying is the use of electronic communication to harass, threaten, intimidate, or humiliate someone. This digital form of bullying encompasses a wide range of harmful behaviors conducted through technology — including social media posts, text messages, emails, instant messaging, online gaming platforms, and forum posts.

Common forms of cyberbullying include:

  • Sending threatening or hostile messages
  • Posting embarrassing photos or videos without consent
  • Spreading false rumors or lies
  • Creating fake profiles to impersonate or mock someone
  • Excluding someone from online groups or activities
  • Sharing private information publicly (doxing)
  • Cyberstalking or persistent harassment
  • Sending unwanted explicit images
  • Rating or ranking peers based on appearance
  • Encouraging self-harm or suicide
Diagram showing common digital environments where cyberbullying occurs, including social media, text messaging, online gaming, and group chats.

The Prevalence of Cyberbullying in Children and Teens

Cyberbullying has evolved from an emerging concern to a widespread crisis affecting the majority of young people. Unlike traditional bullying confined to school hours and physical locations, digital harassment can occur anywhere, anytime, making it nearly inescapable for victims.

Current Statistics (2024-2025)

The latest research paints a sobering picture of how pervasive cyberbullying has become:

  • 58.2% of teens have experienced cyberbullying at some point in their lives (up from 33.6% in 2016)
  • 32.7% of teens experienced cyberbullying in the past 30 days alone
  • 26.5% of teens reported being cyberbullied in 2023, surpassing the 25% who experienced in-person bullying
  • 46% of teens aged 13-17 report experiencing at least one form of cyberbullying, according to the Pew Research Center
  • 28% have experienced multiple types of cyberbullying
  • Girls aged 15-17 face the highest rates, with 38% experiencing two or more kinds of online harassment

School-Based Statistics

During the 2021-2022 school year, more than 21% of students reported being bullied online or by text. Female students were almost twice as likely to be electronically bullied than male students. Notably, cyberbullying occurred more frequently than bullying on school buses, in bathrooms, or in locker rooms.

The impact on school attendance is significant: 19.2% of teens stayed home from school because of cyberbullying in 2023 — nearly double the 10.3% reported in 2016.

Infographic showing the prevalence of cyberbullying among youth, including lifetime, recent, and school-based cyberbullying statistics.

Most Common Platforms for Cyberbullying

According to StopBullying.gov, the platforms where cyberbullying most frequently occurs include:

  • Instagram (96.9% detection rate by platform as of 2024, improved from 35% in 2020)
  • Facebook
  • Snapchat
  • TikTok
  • WhatsApp and text messaging
  • Online gaming platforms
  • Reddit and other forums

Types of Harassment Experienced

The Pew Research Center found that teens experience cyberbullying in various forms:

  • 32% have been called offensive names online
  • 22% have had false rumors spread about them
  • 17% have been sent explicit images they didn't ask for
  • 16% have been persistently asked where they are or what they're doing
  • 7% have had explicit images of them shared without consent

Boys and girls aged 13 to 17 were most likely to say they were harassed or targeted online because of their physical appearance, followed by their gender, race or ethnicity, sexual orientation, and political views.

Recognizing Teen Cyberbullying: Examples

Cyberbullying manifests in countless ways. Here are real-world examples of what it looks like:

  • Colleen makes negative social media posts about her classmate, Eric
  • Katie prank calls Jessica's cell phone and leaves taunting messages about her looks
  • Taylor calls Nora names and insults her during their online game
  • Mason creates a social media post to rate the appearance or popularity of girls in his grade
  • Dylan spreads a false rumor on Instagram about Mark engaging in sexual activities
  • Jane posts a private or embarrassing photo of Julia
  • Joe sends a threatening email to Patrick after finding out they both like the same girl
  • Tate creates a fake account to impersonate Peter and hurt his reputation

Keep in mind that this is not an exhaustive list. Cyberbullying can occur through phone calls, emails, text messages, instant messages, social media comments or posts, online gaming chat, and any digital platform where communication occurs.

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How Cyberbullying Affects Mental Health in Children and Teens

Cyberbullying can create devastating and long-lasting consequences for victims' mental health. Research consistently demonstrates strong correlations between cyberbullying victimization and a range of psychological problems. Here are the most significant mental health effects documented in current research.

1. Anxiety and Anxiety Disorders

Bullying, both in person and online, is positively associated with anxiety, which develops as a response to threatening or stressful situations. Research shows that victims of cyberbullying are significantly more likely to develop anxiety compared to their peers who are not harassed online.

Girls are significantly associated with higher anxiety due to cyberbullying compared to males. Individuals who are slightly older in age are also more likely to develop anxiety symptoms.

Additionally, those who experience cyberbullying victimization have an increased likelihood of developing social anxiety and appearance anxiety. Many kids feel that online harassment is inescapable, causing them to live in constant fear and hypervigilance.

This chronic stress can lead to the development of clinical anxiety disorders, including:

  • Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD): Intense fear of social situations and judgment from others
  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): Persistent, excessive worry about various aspects of life
  • Panic Disorder: Recurring panic attacks with physical symptoms
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Trauma responses triggered by severe or prolonged harassment

It's important to note that anxiety caused by cyberbullying can have long-term psychological effects. Adolescents who experience cyberbullying are more likely to develop symptoms of anxiety that persist as they age, potentially affecting their relationships, career prospects, and overall quality of life.

2. Depression and Depressive Symptoms

Another common psychological impact of cyberbullying is depression. Multiple studies demonstrate that cyberbullying victims are at significantly higher risk of experiencing depressive symptoms and developing major depressive disorder.

A three-year cohort study on cyberbullying victimization revealed that about 33% of females and 16.6% of males had depressive symptoms after being harassed online. Adolescents who experienced cyberbullying were more than twice as likely to have depressive symptoms compared to those who did not.

Research shows that those involved in cyberbullying — including victims, witnesses, and perpetrators — are all more likely to experience depression, even among elementary and middle school students.

Victims often report feelings of:

  • Persistent sadness and hopelessness
  • Loss of interest in activities they once enjoyed
  • Changes in sleep patterns (insomnia or hypersomnia)
  • Fatigue and low energy
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Changes in appetite
  • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • Powerlessness and helplessness

In one study, 93% of cyberbullying victims reported negative effects, with the majority experiencing feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and powerlessness.

3. Social Isolation and Loneliness

Kids who are cyberbullied often face harassment both online and in shared social spaces, including school. No matter the reason for the online harassment, individuals who are cyberbullied frequently develop profound feelings of isolation and loneliness.

Children who are cyberbullied tend to retract their personalities and find any means of "blending in" with others to protect themselves from becoming targets. This defensive withdrawal makes it extremely challenging to develop genuine friendships and maintain healthy social connections.

Cyberbullying victims report significantly higher feelings of loneliness, and school absence is also strongly associated with cyberbullying. Many victims may only feel safe when by themselves, leading them to avoid social activities, extracurricular programs, and events they once enjoyed.

This social withdrawal can create a vicious cycle:

  1. Victim experiences cyberbullying
  2. Victim withdraws from social situations for protection
  3. Isolation increases feelings of loneliness and depression
  4. Lack of social support makes the victim more vulnerable
  5. Mental health deteriorates further

4. Distorted Self-Image and Low Self-Esteem

Victims of cyberbullying report significantly lower levels of self-esteem and more negative attitudes toward themselves. Repeated occurrences of cyberbullying can cause victims to internalize the negative comments and judgments they receive until they eventually believe what others say about them.

In a comprehensive study of the relationship between cyberbullying and self-esteem, 86% of respondents reported that cyberbullying impacted them negatively:

  • 78% said the bullying impacted their self-confidence
  • 70% said it affected their self-esteem

Low self-esteem stemming from cyberbullying has been linked to numerous other mental health conditions, including depression and self-injury behaviors.

Victims may develop:

  • Negative body image, especially when targeted about physical appearance
  • Feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness
  • Perfectionism as an attempt to avoid criticism
  • People-pleasing behaviors to prevent conflict
  • Difficulty accepting compliments or positive feedback
  • Persistent negative self-talk

5. Suicidal Ideation and Behavior

Perhaps the most alarming consequence of cyberbullying is its strong association with suicidal thoughts and behaviors. Higher rates of anxiety and depression are significantly associated with suicidal ideation globally.

The statistics are deeply concerning:

  • Cyberbullying victims were 2.50 times more likely to experience suicidal ideation compared to their non-bullied counterparts
  • In one study, 7.5% of females and 2.3% of males reported serious consideration of attempting suicide in the past year after being cyberbullied
  • Kids who reported cyberbullying were 11.5 times more likely to present with suicidal ideation when visiting emergency departments
  • Those who were both victims and perpetrators faced the highest risk, with 24.2% reporting suicidality
  • Victims of cyberbullying were 4.2 times more likely to experience suicidality compared to those who weren't bullied

Cyberbullying is also associated with actual suicide attempts and completed suicides. Research reveals that both cyberbullying and adolescent suicide are increasing in the United States, with nearly 14% of adolescents making a serious suicide attempt in relation to cyberbullying.

Several high-profile cases have brought national attention to the devastating link between cyberbullying and suicide, including the case of Rebecca Sedwick, a 12-year-old girl from Polk County, Florida, who died by suicide after experiencing relentless acts of cyberbullying.

Physical and Somatic Effects of Cyberbullying

While the psychological impacts of cyberbullying receive significant attention, the physical health consequences are equally concerning. Victims frequently experience psychosomatic symptoms, physical manifestations of psychological stress, that can significantly impact their daily functioning and quality of life.

Common Physical Symptoms

Research shows that cyberbullying victims are twice as likely to experience physical symptoms compared to their non-bullied peers. These symptoms include:

Headaches and Migraines

Chronic stress from ongoing harassment frequently manifests as tension headaches or migraines. The constant anxiety and rumination about cyberbullying can trigger frequent headache episodes that interfere with schoolwork and daily activities.

Gastrointestinal Problems

Stomachaches, nausea, and digestive issues are among the most commonly reported physical symptoms. The anxiety associated with cyberbullying can cause:

  • Upset stomach and nausea
  • Abdominal pain
  • Changes in bowel habits
  • Loss of appetite or stress eating

Sleep Disturbances

Cyberbullying significantly disrupts normal sleep patterns, leading to:

  • Insomnia: Difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep due to anxiety and rumination
  • Nightmares: Disturbing dreams related to harassment experiences
Diagram illustrating physical and somatic effects of cyberbullying, including headaches, sleep disturbance, stomach pain, muscle tension, and fatigue.
  • Sleep anxiety: Fear of checking messages or missing school the next day
  • Daytime fatigue: Exhaustion from poor-quality sleep

Changes in Eating Patterns

Stress and emotional distress can cause significant appetite changes:

  • Loss of appetite and weight loss
  • Stress eating and weight gain
  • Development of disordered eating patterns
  • Risk for eating disorders, particularly when targeted about appearance

Fatigue and Low Energy

The emotional toll of cyberbullying, combined with sleep disturbances and chronic stress, often results in persistent fatigue, low energy levels, and general malaise.

Other Somatic Complaints

Victims may also experience:

  • Muscle tension and body aches
  • Rapid heartbeat or palpitations
  • Dizziness or lightheadedness
  • Chest tightness or difficulty breathing
  • Weakened immune system leading to frequent illness

Long-Term Physical Health Implications

When left unaddressed, the chronic stress from cyberbullying can contribute to more serious long-term health consequences, including:

  • Cardiovascular problems from prolonged stress
  • Weakened immune function
  • Chronic pain conditions
  • Higher risk for stress-related illnesses in adulthood

As clinicians, it's essential to assess for these physical symptoms when evaluating adolescents for cyberbullying impacts, as they often serve as important indicators of psychological distress.

Academic and Developmental Impact of Cyberbullying

The effects of cyberbullying extend far beyond emotional distress, significantly impacting victims' academic performance, cognitive functioning, and educational trajectory. Understanding these academic consequences is crucial for clinicians working with school counselors and educational systems.

Impact on Learning and School Performance

According to the Cyberbullying Research Center, 64% of victims say cyberbullying affects their ability to learn and feel safe at school. This profound impact manifests in multiple ways:

Decreased Concentration and Productivity

Victims of cyberbullying experience significant difficulty concentrating on their studies. The psychological distress — including anxiety, depression, and intrusive thoughts about harassment — makes it nearly impossible to focus on academic tasks. Students report:

  • Inability to concentrate during class
  • Difficulty completing homework assignments
  • Problems retaining information
  • Mind wandering to harassment experiences
  • Reduced productivity on projects and papers

Declining Grades and Academic Achievement

Research consistently shows that cyberbullying victimization correlates with poor academic performance. Students who are cyberbullied often experience:

  • Dropping grades across multiple subjects
  • Missing or incomplete assignments
  • Failing tests due to inability to study or concentrate
  • Reduced participation in class discussions
  • Lower overall GPA

School Avoidance and Absenteeism

One of the most measurable impacts is the increase in school absences. The statistics are striking:

  • 19.2% of teens stayed home from school because of cyberbullying in 2023
  • This represents nearly double the 10.3% reported in 2016
  • More than half of teens (54%) view online bullying in schools as a major issue

Victims avoid school for multiple reasons:

  • Fear of facing bullies in person
  • Anxiety about peers who may have seen humiliating content
  • Physical symptoms (headaches, stomachaches) that make attendance difficult
  • Depression and lack of motivation to attend
  • Feeling unsafe in the school environment

Long-Term Educational Consequences

Dropout Risk

The cumulative effects of cyberbullying significantly increase the risk of students dropping out of school. Research on those who engage in cyberbullying shows that 39% eventually drop out, and victims face similar risks when the harassment becomes overwhelming.

Reduced Educational Aspirations

Chronic victimization can diminish students' confidence in their abilities and reduce their educational and career aspirations. They may:

  • Avoid pursuing challenging courses
  • Give up on college plans
  • Limit career goals due to damaged self-confidence
  • Miss opportunities for academic advancement

Impact on Extracurricular Participation

Cyberbullying often causes students to withdraw from:

  • Sports teams
  • Clubs and organizations
  • Student government
  • Arts programs
  • Social events

This withdrawal deprives them of opportunities for skill development, leadership experience, and positive peer relationships, all of which are important for healthy development and college applications.

Cognitive and Developmental Effects

Beyond grades and attendance, cyberbullying can impact fundamental cognitive and developmental processes:

  • Executive function impairment: Chronic stress affects decision-making, planning, and impulse control
  • Memory problems: Anxiety and depression interfere with memory formation and recall
  • Reduced cognitive flexibility: Difficulty adapting to new situations or problem-solving
  • Delayed social-emotional development: Interrupted normal developmental milestones

Clinical Implications for Behavioral Health Professionals

As clinicians, we must:

  • Assess academic performance as part of comprehensive evaluations
  • Collaborate with school counselors and teachers
  • Advocate for academic accommodations when needed
  • Help students develop strategies to maintain academic progress during treatment
  • Address school avoidance behaviors specifically in treatment plans
  • Work with families to support educational continuity

Cyberbullying and Substance Abuse Connection

An often-overlooked consequence of cyberbullying is its strong association with substance use and abuse among adolescents. Understanding this connection is crucial for comprehensive assessment and treatment planning.

Research on the Connection

 Studies reveal that cyberbullying victims are 2.37 times more likely to engage in substance abuse compared to their non-victimized peers (adjusted odds ratio: 2.37; 95% confidence interval: 1.02-5.49; p = 0.044). Among those who engage in cyberbullying as perpetrators, 32% report frequent substance abuse.

Why Cyberbullying Leads to Substance Use

Adolescents who experience cyberbullying may turn to substances as a maladaptive coping mechanism to:

  • Escape emotional pain: Alcohol and drugs provide temporary relief from depression, anxiety, and trauma
  • Numb psychological distress: Substances help victims "turn off" intrusive thoughts about harassment
  • Self-medicate symptoms: Using substances to manage anxiety, sleep problems, or depression
  • Fit in socially: Attempting to gain acceptance or status through substance use
  • Reduce inhibitions: Using alcohol or drugs to manage social anxiety stemming from victimization

Common Substances Used

Research indicates cyberbullying victims are at higher risk for using:

  • Alcohol (most common)
  • Marijuana/cannabis
  • Prescription medications (particularly sedatives and painkillers)
  • Tobacco and vaping products
  • Other illicit substances

The Dangerous Cycle

Cyberbullying rarely exists in isolation. For many children and adolescents, ongoing online harassment creates significant psychological distress that interferes with emotional regulation, coping capacity, and judgment. When supportive resources are limited or distress feels overwhelming, some youth turn to substances as a maladaptive coping strategy to temporarily escape anxiety, depression, shame, or social pain associated with cyberbullying experiences.

Related: Anxiety and Substance Use: Breaking the Cycle

While substance use may offer short-term relief, it often intensifies the overall impact of cyberbullying by introducing new academic, behavioral, and relational challenges. Declining school performance, impaired decision-making, and strained peer or family relationships can increase vulnerability to continued victimization, deepen emotional distress, and reinforce avoidance-based coping. Over time, this pattern can evolve into a self-perpetuating cycle in which cyberbullying and substance use interact, significantly elevating the risk for long-term mental health concerns and substance use disorders if not addressed through early, coordinated intervention.

This pattern often unfolds in predictable stages, with each step reinforcing the next and increasing the child’s vulnerability over time:

  1. Victim experiences cyberbullying and psychological distress
  2. Victim uses substances to cope with emotional pain
  3. Substance use provides temporary relief but causes new problems
  4. Academic performance declines, relationships suffer, judgment impaired
  5. These new problems increase vulnerability to continued victimization
  6. Increased distress leads to increased substance use
  7. Risk of developing substance use disorder grows

Clinical Assessment and Intervention

As behavioral health clinicians, we must:

  • Screen for substance use: Always assess for substance use when treating cyberbullying victims
Diagram illustrating the vicious cycle between cyberbullying, psychological distress, substance use, and worsening academic, social, and mental health outcomes.
  • Explore function of use: Understand what role substances play in the adolescent's coping strategy
  • Provide healthy alternatives: Teach evidence-based coping skills to replace substance use
  • Address underlying trauma: Treat the root causes rather than just the substance use symptom
  • Involve family: Educate parents about the connection and warning signs
  • Consider co-occurring disorders: Treat substance use and mental health issues concurrently
  • Refer appropriately: Connect severe cases with substance abuse treatment specialists

Prevention Through Early Intervention

Early identification and intervention for cyberbullying can prevent the development of substance abuse problems. By addressing the cyberbullying trauma promptly and teaching healthy coping strategies, we can interrupt the pathway to substance use before it begins.

Effects of Cyberbullying on Perpetrators

While much attention focuses on victims, those who engage in cyberbullying also experience significant negative mental health outcomes. Understanding perpetrator psychology and consequences is essential for comprehensive prevention and intervention strategies.

Mental Health Impacts on Perpetrators

Contrary to the stereotype of bullies as confident and powerful, research shows that those who engage in cyberbullying experience elevated rates of psychological problems:

  • Stress and anxiety: Higher rates than non-involved peers
  • Depression: Though rates may be lower than traditional bullies, perpetrators still show elevated depressive symptoms
  • Aggressive behavior: Increased likelihood of engaging in other forms of aggression and violence
  • Delinquency: 37% show delinquent behavior patterns

Academic and Social Consequences

Cyberbullying perpetrators face serious consequences that impact their futures:

  • 39% dropout rate: Perpetrators are significantly more likely to drop out of school
  • 32% substance abuse rate: Higher likelihood of frequent substance abuse
  • Poor peer relationships: Difficulty forming genuine, healthy friendships
  • Disciplinary actions: School suspensions, expulsions, and legal consequences
  • 16% severely depressed: Significant portion experience major depressive episodes

Why Do Children and Teens Engage in Cyberbullying?

Understanding motivations helps inform treatment approaches. According to Dr. Joseph Magliano, Professor of Psychology at Northern Illinois University, the factors are "multiple and complex." Common reasons include:

Power and Control

  • Using cyberbullying to feel more powerful than they actually are
  • Compensating for feelings of powerlessness in other areas of life
  • Asserting dominance in social hierarchies

Social Motivations

  • Attempting to gain popularity or social status
  • Perceiving that peers engage in this behavior (social norms)
  • Seeking attention or validation from peer groups
  • Fear of becoming a victim themselves

Family and Home Factors

  • Poor parent-child relationships
  • Lack of parental monitoring or supervision while online
  • Exposure to family violence or aggression
  • Witnessing bullying behavior from parents or siblings

Individual Risk Factors

  • Previous victimization (victim-perpetrator overlap)
  • Low empathy for others
  • Aggressive or impulsive personality traits
  • Difficulty regulating emotions
  • Moral disengagement from consequences

Unique Features of the Online Environment

  • Anonymity: Feeling protected from consequences
  • Distance: Not seeing a victim’s reactions reduces empathy
  • Reward structures: Likes, shares, and comments reinforce behavior
  • Reduced accountability: Perception that online actions “don’t count”

The Victim-Perpetrator Overlap

Research shows significant overlap between victims and perpetrators. Many who engage in cyberbullying have themselves been bullied — either online or in person. This group faces the highest risk for negative outcomes:

  • 24.2% report suicidality (higher than victims or perpetrators alone)
  • Elevated rates of all mental health problems
  • Greatest risk for substance abuse and delinquency
  • Most complex treatment needs

Long-Term Consequences for Perpetrators

Engaging in cyberbullying during adolescence can have lasting effects:

  • Antisocial behavior patterns: Risk for ongoing aggressive or criminal behavior in adulthood
  • Relationship problems: Difficulty forming healthy intimate relationships
  • Employment challenges: Digital footprint of bullying behavior can affect future opportunities
  • Legal consequences: In some jurisdictions, cyberbullying can result in criminal charges
  • Parenting risks: Higher likelihood of engaging in abusive parenting behaviors

Clinical Interventions for Perpetrators

When working with adolescents who have engaged in cyberbullying, clinicians should:

  • Assess for victimization history: Many perpetrators have also been victims
  • Explore family dynamics: Assess home environment and parenting practices
  • Build empathy: Help them understand impact of their actions on victims
  • Address underlying issues: Treat depression, anxiety, trauma, or other mental health problems
  • Teach emotional regulation: Provide skills for managing anger and impulses
  • Challenge cognitive distortions: Address justifications and rationalizations for behavior
  • Involve family therapy: Work with families to improve relationships and establish appropriate monitoring
  • Develop prosocial alternatives: Channel need for power and status into positive activities

Prevention Through Understanding

Recognizing that perpetrators also struggle with mental health issues and often have histories of adversity helps us develop more compassionate and effective prevention programs. Addressing root causes — such as family dysfunction, previous victimization, and poor emotional regulation — can prevent individuals from engaging in cyberbullying in the first place.

The Psychological Impact of Cyberbullying on Bystanders and Witnesses

Cyberbullying doesn't only affect victims and perpetrators — witnesses and bystanders also experience significant psychological distress. Understanding these effects is crucial because the majority of young people will witness cyberbullying at some point, making this a widespread mental health concern.

Prevalence of Witnessing Cyberbullying

The statistics show that witnessing online harassment is extremely common:

  • More than half of teens (54%) view online bullying in schools as a major issue
  • Most adolescents report having witnessed cyberbullying on social media platforms
  • Bystanders often see harassment repeatedly across multiple platforms

Mental Health Effects on Bystanders

Research demonstrates that witnessing cyberbullying can lead to various negative psychological outcomes:

Anxiety and Fear

  • Vicarious trauma: Experiencing distress from witnessing others' suffering
  • Fear of becoming the next target: Worry that they could be victimized next
  • Hypervigilance: Constantly monitoring online spaces for potential threats
  • Social anxiety: Increased anxiety about their own social standing and online presence

Feelings of Helplessness and Powerlessness

Witnesses often feel:

  • Uncertain about how to intervene safely
  • Guilty for not taking action to help the victim
  • Frustrated by the inability to stop the harassment
  • Overwhelmed by the pervasiveness of the problem

Moral Distress and Guilt

Bystanders frequently experience moral and ethical distress:

  • Guilt about remaining silent or not defending the victim
  • Internal conflict between wanting to help and fear of consequences
  • Shame about contributing through likes, shares, or passive engagement
  • Rumination about what they should have done differently

Depression and Sadness

  • Feeling sad or distressed about what they witnessed
  • Developing depressive symptoms from repeated exposure
  • Losing faith in peer relationships and humanity
  • Decreased overall mood and life satisfaction

Sleep and Eating Disturbances

Similar to victims, bystanders may experience:

  • Difficulty falling asleep due to disturbing images or content
  • Nightmares about witnessed harassment
  • Changes in appetite from stress and worry

The Bystander Effect in Cyberbullying

The "bystander effect," the phenomenon where individuals are less likely to intervene when others are present, operates uniquely in online spaces:

  • Diffusion of responsibility: With many witnesses, each person feels less personally responsible to act
  • Pluralistic ignorance: If no one else is intervening, witnesses may assume intervention isn't necessary or appropriate
  • Evaluation apprehension: Fear of being judged negatively by peers for intervening
  • Audience invisibility: Not knowing how many others are witnessing makes it easier to remain passive

Barriers to Intervention

Bystanders face multiple barriers that prevent them from helping victims:

  • Fear of retaliation: Worry about becoming the bully's next target
  • Social consequences: Concern about losing friends or social status
  • Lack of knowledge: Uncertainty about effective intervention strategies
  • Technical barriers: Not knowing how to report or block
  • Belief it won't help: Pessimism that intervention will make a difference
  • Peer pressure: Group norms that discourage "snitching" or standing up

Positive Bystander Intervention

Despite these barriers, bystanders have enormous power to prevent and stop cyberbullying. Research shows that when bystanders intervene, bullying stops within 10 seconds 57% of the time. Effective bystander actions include:

  • Private support: Reaching out to the victim privately with supportive messages
  • Public support: Posting supportive comments or defending the victim online (when safe)
  • Reporting: Using platform reporting tools or telling trusted adults
  • Refusing to engage: Not liking, sharing, or commenting on bullying content
  • Documenting: Taking screenshots as evidence for reports
  • Distracting: Changing the subject or redirecting conversation

Clinical Implications for Treating Bystanders

When working with adolescents who have witnessed cyberbullying, clinicians should:

  • Validate their distress: Acknowledge that witnessing is traumatic
  • Address guilt: Help them process feelings about inaction
  • Teach intervention skills: Provide concrete strategies for safe intervention
  • Empower action: Encourage appropriate intervention within their comfort level
  • Process vicarious trauma: Use trauma-informed approaches to address distress from witnessing
  • Build resilience: Strengthen coping skills for managing exposure to online negativity

Prevention Through Bystander Education

Many effective cyberbullying prevention programs focus on empowering bystanders because:

  • There are far more bystanders than perpetrators
  • Peers have significant influence on each other's behavior
  • Creating a culture where bullying is unacceptable is more effective than targeting individual bullies
  • Bystander intervention programs have shown measurable success in reducing bullying

How to Tell if a Child is Being Cyberbullied: Warning Signs

As a school counselor, child therapist, or behavioral health clinician, you must know how to identify warning signs of cyberbullying. Many children and teens who are cyberbullied do not tell a parent, counselor, or teacher because they feel embarrassed, ashamed, or fear that their electronic devices will be taken away. Raising awareness about these signs can help parents and educators intervene before situations escalate.

Behavioral and Emotional Changes

  • Emotional changes: Being sad, withdrawn, depressed, anxious, or irritable for no apparent reason
  • Crying spells: Unexplained crying or emotional outbursts
  • Anger and frustration: Disproportionate reactions of anger, particularly after using devices
  • Social withdrawal: Avoiding friends, social activities, or events they used to enjoy
  • Low self-esteem: Expressing feelings of worthlessness or inadequacy
  • Secretiveness: Being unusually secretive about online activities or quickly hiding screens
  • Emotional unavailability: Being unable or unwilling to talk about feelings

Device-Related Behaviors

  • Excessive checking: Compulsively checking social media more often than usual
  • Nervous reactions: Acting jumpy or anxious when receiving texts or notifications
  • Device avoidance: Suddenly stopping device use or avoiding social media
  • Hiding activity: Quickly closing programs or hiding screens when someone approaches
  • Account changes: Deleting social media accounts or creating new ones

Physical Symptoms

  • Sleep problems: Difficulty sleeping, insomnia, or nightmares
  • Appetite changes: Eating much more or much less than usual
  • Physical complaints: Frequent headaches, stomachaches, or other somatic symptoms
  • Fatigue: Appearing tired or exhausted regularly
  • Self-harm evidence: Unexplained injuries or signs of self-injury

Academic and School-Related Signs

  • School avoidance: Protesting going to school or making excuses to stay home
  • Declining grades: Sudden drop in academic performance
  • Poor concentration: Difficulty focusing or paying attention
  • Missing assignments: Not completing or turning in homework
  • Increased absences: Frequent absences or tardiness
  • Isolation at school: Spending time alone rather than with peers

Social and Relationship Changes

  • Friend group changes: Suddenly losing friends or changing friend groups
  • Social isolation: Spending more time than usual alone
  • Activity withdrawal: Quitting sports teams, clubs, or extracurricular activities
  • Avoiding social situations: Making excuses to avoid parties, events, or gatherings

Extreme Warning Signs Requiring Immediate Action

Some signs indicate a crisis situation requiring immediate intervention:

  • Suicidal ideation: Talking about suicide, death, or not wanting to live
  • Self-harm behavior: Cutting, burning, or other self-injury
  • Giving away possessions: Getting rid of valued items
  • Saying goodbye: Unusual goodbyes to friends or family
  • Reckless behavior: Sudden engagement in dangerous activities
  • Substance abuse: Sudden onset of alcohol or drug use

If you observe these signs, immediate intervention is critical. Contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or take the individual to an emergency department.

Differences Between Parent and Clinician Observations

Research demonstrates that witnessing cyberbullying can lead to various negative psychological outcomes:

What Parents May Notice

Parents are more likely to observe:

  • Changes in daily routines and habits
  • Shifts in device usage patterns
  • Physical complaints (e.g., headaches, stomachaches)
  • Sleep and eating changes
  • Noticeable mood changes at home

What Clinicians May Observe

During clinical sessions, professionals may notice:

  • Difficulty maintaining eye contact
  • Flat affect or inappropriate emotional responses
  • Themes in play or art therapy suggesting victimization
  • Avoidance of topics related to school or peers
  • Changes in therapeutic engagement
  • Trauma symptoms (hypervigilance, exaggerated startle response)

Assessment Strategies for Clinicians

When you suspect cyberbullying, use these assessment approaches:

  • Create safety first: Establish that the clinical space is safe and confidential
  • Ask directly but gently: Use straightforward questions about online experiences
  • Normalize experiences: Help them understand that many peers face similar issues
  • Use screening tools: Employ validated cyberbullying assessment instruments
  • Gather collateral information: Speak with parents and teachers (with appropriate consent)
  • Assess severity and duration: Determine how long bullying has occurred and its intensity
  • Evaluate safety: Assess for suicidal ideation, self-harm, and immediate safety concerns

Related: Mental Health Safety Planning: Why It's No Longer Optional for Clinicians

It's important to remember that the absence of warning signs doesn't mean a child isn't being cyberbullied. Some children become very skilled at hiding their distress. Regular check-ins and open communication about online experiences are essential.

Why Cyberbullying is More Harmful Than Traditional Bullying

While all forms of bullying can cause significant harm, research increasingly shows that cyberbullying can be even more detrimental to victims' mental health than traditional face-to-face bullying. Understanding these unique characteristics helps explain why the psychological impact is often more severe and longer lasting.

Illustration comparing traditional bullying and cyberbullying, highlighting factors such as permanence, anonymity, unlimited audience, and 24/7 access that increase psychological harm.

The Unique Characteristics of Cyberbullying

1. Permanence and the "Digital Footprint"

Unlike traditional bullying incidents that occur and end, cyberbullying creates a permanent record:

  • Content lives forever: Posts, images, and messages can remain online indefinitely with the internet's "perpetual memory"
  • Screenshots preserve everything: Even deleted content can be captured and reshared
  • Search engine indexing: Humiliating content can appear in search results for years
  • Impossible to escape past: The digital footprint follows victims into adulthood, potentially affecting college admissions and employment
  • Repeated victimization: Content can be discovered and reshared by new people, causing repeated trauma

This permanence means victims cannot simply "move past" the incident — the evidence of their humiliation remains accessible, creating ongoing psychological distress.

2. Unlimited Audience Size

Traditional bullying typically involves a limited number of witnesses. Cyberbullying, however:

  • Reaches vast audiences: A single post can be seen by hundreds or thousands of people
  • Goes viral rapidly: Content can spread exponentially through shares and retweets
  • Crosses geographic boundaries: Humiliation extends far beyond the victim's immediate community
  • Includes strangers: Unknown people worldwide can view, comment on, and share content
  • Amplifies embarrassment: The public nature of the humiliation intensifies shame and distress

The knowledge that countless people have witnessed their humiliation creates profound feelings of exposure and vulnerability.

3. 24/7 Access and Inescapability

Perhaps the most significant difference is that cyberbullying follows victims everywhere:

  • No safe haven: Harassment continues at home, which was traditionally a place of refuge
  • Constant connectivity: Smartphones mean bullying can occur anytime, day or night
  • Sleep disruption: Late-night messages prevent victims from getting rest
  • Vacation doesn't help: Bullying follows victims wherever they have internet access
  • Mental exhaustion: The inability to escape creates chronic stress and hypervigilance

This inescapability is one of the most frequently cited reasons why cyberbullying victims report feeling more trapped and hopeless than those who experience only traditional bullying.

4. Anonymity and Unknown Perpetrators

The ability to bully anonymously creates unique psychological harm:

  • Intensified fear: Not knowing who is attacking them creates paranoia and hypervigilance
  • Trust erosion: Victims may suspect anyone, damaging all relationships
  • Inability to confront: Cannot address the problem directly with the perpetrator
  • More severe harassment: Anonymity emboldens bullies to be crueler than they would face-to-face
  • Powerlessness: Inability to identify attacker increases feelings of helplessness
  • Reporting difficulties: Harder to stop bullying when perpetrator is unknown

The anonymous nature of many cyberbullying incidents amplifies victims' psychological distress and makes intervention more challenging.

5. Reduced Empathy and Disinhibition

The online environment reduces normal social inhibitions:

  • Lack of immediate feedback: Bullies don't see victims' pain, tears, or reactions
  • Dehumanization: Screens create psychological distance from the human being targeted
  • Reduced guilt: Not witnessing harm reduces feelings of remorse
  • Online disinhibition effect: People say things online they would never say in person
  • Escalation without consequence awareness: Bullies may not fully grasp the severity of their actions
  • Group mentality: Pile-on effects where multiple people join the harassment

This reduced empathy often results in more extreme and cruel forms of harassment than occur in face-to-face bullying.

6. Viral Spread and Amplification

The viral nature of online content creates unique harm:

  • Exponential reach: Content can reach millions through shares and algorithms
  • Strangers join in: People who don't know the victim may add cruel comments
  • Loss of control: Victim has no ability to stop the spread
  • Trending negativity: Content may be algorithmically promoted, increasing exposure
  • Media coverage: Severe cases may attract news attention, further amplifying humiliation

7. Multiple Forms and Multimedia

Cyberbullying can take more varied and impactful forms:

  • Altered images: Photos manipulated to humiliate (now including AI deepfakes)
  • Videos: More impactful and shareable than text alone
  • Audio recordings: Private conversations shared publicly
  • Memes: Victim's image used in widely shared mocking content
  • Rating sites: Platforms specifically designed to rank or rate people
  • Fake accounts: Impersonation that damages reputation
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Research Comparing Impact of Cyberbullying vs Traditional Bullying

Studies directly comparing traditional bullying and cyberbullying have found:

  • Victims of cyberbullying are twice as likely to attempt suicide or engage in self-harm compared to victims of traditional bullying
  • Cyberbullying victims report higher levels of depression and anxiety
  • The effects of cyberbullying persist longer and are more difficult to resolve
  • Cyberbullying has a more severe impact on self-esteem
  • Victims experience more profound feelings of helplessness

Why Traditional Bullying is Sometimes "Better"

While all bullying is harmful, traditional bullying at least offers some limitations:

  • Identified perpetrators: Victims know who to avoid and can seek intervention
  • Time-limited: Ends when school day ends or when victim leaves the location
  • Limited audience: Usually only those physically present witness the incident
  • Fades over time: No permanent record exists for future discovery
  • Easier to address: School authorities can more readily intervene

Clinical Implications

Understanding why cyberbullying is uniquely harmful helps clinicians:

  • Validate victims' intense reactions as appropriate to the severity of harm
  • Anticipate more complex and long-lasting treatment needs
  • Address the specific aspects that make cyberbullying so distressing
  • Help victims develop coping strategies for each unique characteristic
  • Educate parents and schools about why this form of bullying requires urgent attention

While both traditional bullying and cyberbullying cause serious harm, the unique characteristics of digital harassment — permanence, unlimited audience, inescapability, anonymity, and viral spread — combine to create a particularly damaging form of victimization that often requires more intensive and specialized treatment approaches.

Evidence-Based Therapeutic Strategies for Addressing Cyberbullying

As behavioral health clinicians, we play a crucial role in helping children, teens, and their families address the devastating effects of cyberbullying. The following evidence-based strategies can be integrated into your clinical practice to support recovery and build resilience.

Infographic outlining evidence-based therapeutic strategies for addressing cyberbullying in youth, including CBT, trauma-informed care, emotional regulation, family involvement, school collaboration, digital safety planning, and resilience-building.

1. Trauma-Informed Care Approach

Cyberbullying is a form of psychological trauma that requires trauma-informed treatment approaches:

  • Establish safety first: Create a therapeutic environment where the client feels physically and emotionally safe
  • Validate experiences: Acknowledge the severity of what they've endured without minimizing
  • Recognize trauma symptoms: Identify PTSD symptoms, hypervigilance, and re-experiencing
  • Address trauma triggers: Help clients identify and manage triggers related to their harassment
  • Build trauma narrative: Use narrative therapy to help clients process and make sense of their experiences

2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT is highly effective for treating depression and anxiety resulting from cyberbullying:

  • Challenge cognitive distortions: Help clients identify and reframe negative thoughts ("Everyone hates me" → "Some people were cruel, but I have people who care about me")
  • Address internalized messages: Challenge beliefs victims have adopted from bullies' comments
  • Reduce catastrophizing: Help clients develop more balanced thinking about situations
  • Behavioral activation: Gradually re-engage clients in activities they've withdrawn from
  • Exposure techniques: Carefully reintroduce avoided social situations or online spaces

3. Building Resilience and Coping Strategies

Teaching healthy coping strategies is essential for recovery:

Emotion-Focused Coping

  • Deep breathing exercises: Teach diaphragmatic breathing for anxiety management
  • Progressive muscle relaxation: Reduce physical tension from stress
  • Mindfulness practices: Help clients stay present rather than ruminating
  • Journaling: Provide an outlet for processing emotions
  • Creative expression: Use art, music, or movement to process feelings
  • Physical activity: Encourage exercise to reduce stress and improve mood

Problem-Focused Coping

  • Digital safety planning: Develop strategies to increase online safety
  • Blocking and reporting: Teach how to use platform tools effectively
  • Evidence collection: Guide appropriate documentation of harassment
  • Communication scripts: Practice assertive responses when appropriate
  • Seeking help strategies: Identify trusted adults and resources

Building Assertiveness

  • Practice confident communication skills
  • Role-play responses to difficult situations
  • Develop boundary-setting abilities
  • Strengthen sense of personal agency
  • Build self-advocacy skills

4. Teach Responsible and Safe Online Usage

One of the most effective ways to mitigate negative effects is education:

For Clients and Their Parents

  • Privacy settings: Maximize privacy on all social media accounts
  • Selective sharing: Think carefully before posting personal information
  • Blocking functions: How to block users who harass them
  • Reporting mechanisms: Use platform reporting tools for violations
  • Screenshot evidence: Document harassment before blocking (if emotionally safe)
  • Time limits: Set healthy boundaries on screen time
  • No retaliation: Understand why responding to bullies often escalates situations

Parental Monitoring and Support

  • Encourage open communication between parents and children
  • Recommend age-appropriate monitoring tools
  • Help parents understand key platform features
  • Balance online safety with respect for privacy
  • Create tech-free zones and tech-free times at home

5. Highlight the Necessity of Social Support

Building a strong support network is one of the most protective factors:

  • Family connections: Strengthen parent-child relationships and family bonds
  • Positive peer relationships: Help clients identify and connect with supportive friends
  • Mentorship: Connect with positive adult role models
  • Support groups: Join groups with others who have experienced cyberbullying
  • School connections: Engage supportive teachers, counselors, or coaches
  • Community involvement: Participate in activities that build belonging
  • Online positive communities: Identify safe, supportive online spaces

Research consistently shows that strong social support is one of the most powerful protective factors against the negative effects of cyberbullying. Help clients recognize that they are not alone and that support is available.

6. Encourage Speaking Up and Seeking Help

Many victims remain silent due to shame, embarrassment, or fear. Address these barriers:

  • Normalize help-seeking: Emphasize that asking for help is a sign of strength
  • Reduce shame: Help clients understand they are not to blame
  • Address fears: Problem-solve concerns about retaliation or having devices taken away
  • Practice disclosure: Role-play telling trusted adults about harassment
  • Create safety plan: Identify multiple people they can turn to for help
  • Empower advocacy: Help them feel capable of speaking up for themselves

7. Rebuilding Self-Esteem and Identity

Cyberbullying often severely damages self-esteem. Focus on rebuilding positive self-concept:

  • Strengths exploration: Help clients identify and acknowledge their strengths
  • Values clarification: Reconnect with personal values independent of others' opinions
  • Positive self-statements: Develop and practice affirmations
  • Success experiences: Create opportunities for accomplishment and mastery
  • Identity work: Explore and strengthen sense of self beyond online persona
  • Self-compassion: Teach kindness toward self and acceptance of imperfection

8. Family Therapy and Systemic Interventions

Involving families is crucial for comprehensive treatment:

  • Psychoeducation: Educate families about cyberbullying impacts
  • Communication skills: Improve family communication patterns
  • Parental response training: Teach parents effective ways to respond and support
  • Family safety planning: Develop whole-family approach to online safety
  • Addressing family conflict: Resolve conflicts that may exacerbate victim's distress
  • Strengthening attachments: Build secure family relationships

For perpetrators, family therapy is particularly important to address underlying family dysfunction, establish appropriate monitoring, and break cycles of aggression.

9. Offer Comprehensive Resources

Connect clients and families with additional support:

Crisis Resources

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 (24/7, free, confidential)
  • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
  • National Child Traumatic Stress Network: Resources for trauma support

Cyberbullying-Specific Resources

  • StopBullying.gov: Comprehensive information and resources
  • Cyberbullying Research Center: Latest research and statistics
  • Cybersmile Foundation: Digital wellbeing and support resources
  • STOMP Out Bullying: Anti-bullying organization with helpline
  • Common Sense Media: Age-appropriate guidance for online safety

Platform-Specific Reporting

  • Instagram: Settings → Privacy → Report
  • TikTok: Long press on comment or video → Report
  • Snapchat: Press and hold on snap or message → Report
  • Facebook: Click three dots → Find support or report

Legal Resources

  • StopBullying.gov: Federal and state laws related to bullying
  • Local law enforcement for severe cases involving threats or criminal behavior
  • School district policies and procedures

10. School-Based Interventions

Collaborate with schools for comprehensive support:

  • 504 or IEP accommodations: Advocate for accommodations if cyberbullying affects learning
  • School counselor collaboration: Coordinate care with school mental health professionals
  • Teacher communication: Ensure teachers are aware (with appropriate consent)
  • Safety planning: Develop in-school safety strategies
  • Restorative practices: Support restorative justice approaches when appropriate
  • Prevention programs: Advocate for evidence-based prevention curricula

11. Treatment for Co-Occurring Issues

Address related problems that often accompany cyberbullying victimization:

  • Substance abuse: Assess and treat maladaptive coping through substances
  • Self-harm behaviors: Implement safety planning and DBT skills
  • Eating disorders: Address disordered eating, especially when appearance was targeted
  • Sleep disorders: Treat insomnia and sleep disturbances
  • ADHD: Manage co-occurring attention difficulties
  • Previous trauma: Address other traumatic experiences

Clinical Documentation and Progress Monitoring

Maintain thorough clinical records:

  • Document nature and severity of cyberbullying experienced
  • Track symptoms over time using standardized measures
  • Monitor suicidal ideation at every session
  • Record safety planning interventions
  • Document coordination with schools and other providers
  • Note improvement in functioning across domains

At ICANotes, our comprehensive EHR system makes it easy to document these complex cases with customizable templates specifically designed for behavioral health professionals. Our system includes built-in assessment tools and progress tracking features that help you provide the highest quality care.

Case Studies: Applying Interventions in Clinical Practice

These composite case examples illustrate how to apply cyberbullying interventions in real clinical scenarios. All identifying information has been changed to protect confidentiality.

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Case Study 1: Emma, Age 14 - Severe Depression Following Image-Based Cyberbullying

Presentation

Emma was referred by her school counselor after a three-week absence from school. A former friend had posted an unflattering photo of Emma changing in the locker room, which spread rapidly across multiple platforms. The photo received hundreds of mocking comments and was shared by classmates and strangers alike.

Symptoms

  • Severe depression with suicidal ideation (without plan)
  • Social isolation and refusal to leave home
  • Panic attacks when checking phone or social media
  • Complete withdrawal from all previously enjoyed activities
  • Sleep disturbances and loss of appetite

Intervention Approach

  1. Safety assessment and planning: Conducted thorough suicide risk assessment; developed safety plan with parents
  2. Trauma-informed stabilization: Established safe therapeutic relationship; validated severity of trauma
  3. Digital detox period: Temporarily removed from all social media with parental support
  4. CBT for depression: Challenged beliefs like "Everyone has seen it and thinks I'm disgusting"
  5. Gradual exposure: Slowly reintroduced social activities, starting with one trusted friend
  6. Family therapy: Strengthened parent-child communication and support
  7. School collaboration: Worked with school to address bullies and create re-entry plan
  8. Self-esteem rebuilding: Focused on values and identity beyond appearance

Outcome

After six months of weekly therapy, Emma returned to school, reconnected with supportive friends, and reported significant improvement in depressive symptoms. She developed healthy boundaries with social media and learned to seek support when needed.

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Case Study 2: Marcus, Age 16 - Perpetrator with Victim History

Presentation

Marcus was mandated to treatment after being suspended for cyberbullying multiple classmates. Assessment revealed he had been severely bullied in middle school and was using aggression to avoid being victimized again.

Symptoms

  • Anxiety and hypervigilance in social situations
  • Poor impulse control and anger management issues
  • Difficulty with empathy and perspective-taking
  • Unprocessed trauma from previous victimization
  • Substance use (marijuana) as coping mechanism

Intervention Approach

  1. Trauma assessment: Identified and validated his previous victimization
  2. Responsibility without shame: Held him accountable while addressing underlying trauma
  3. Empathy building: Used perspective-taking exercises to understand impact on victims
  4. Anger management: Taught healthy emotional regulation skills
  5. Substance abuse treatment: Addressed maladaptive coping patterns
  6. Family therapy: Improved home environment and established monitoring
  7. Restorative justice: Facilitated apology and amends process
  8. Positive identity development: Helped build identity not based on power/dominance

Outcome

Marcus completed treatment successfully and reported no further bullying incidents. He joined a peer mentoring program where he helps younger students avoid the mistakes he made.

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Case Study 3: Aisha, Age 13 - Anxiety and School Avoidance

Presentation

Aisha experienced ongoing harassment on Instagram from an anonymous account making racist comments. She developed severe social anxiety and refused to attend school for fear of facing the unknown perpetrator.

Symptoms

  • Panic disorder with frequent panic attacks
  • School refusal behavior
  • Hypervigilance and trust issues
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Physical symptoms (stomachaches, headaches)

Intervention Approach

  1. Anxiety management: Taught grounding techniques and breathing exercises
  2. Exposure hierarchy: Gradually reintroduced school attendance (starting with 1 hour/day)
  3. Platform reporting: Assisted in reporting anonymous account to Instagram
  4. Identity affirmation: Explored and strengthened cultural identity
  5. Support network: Connected with school diversity club and supportive peers
  6. School collaboration: Worked with administration to investigate perpetrator
  7. Parent empowerment: Taught parents how to support without accommodating avoidance

Outcome

Within three months, Aisha returned to full-time school attendance. The anonymous account was traced and shut down. She continues to manage anxiety effectively and actively participates in anti-bullying initiatives.

These cases demonstrate that individualized, comprehensive treatment approaches that address both the cyberbullying trauma and underlying vulnerability factors can lead to significant improvement in functioning and quality of life.

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About the Author

Sara Blevins-Ranes graduated with her BA in Art Therapy and Psychology from Converse University and with her MA in Art Therapy from the George Washington University. Located in Texas, Sara is a trauma-informed clinician who specializes in child and adolescent crisis care and has experience with active duty and veteran populations, school-based therapy, as well as within hospice care for children and adults.